Since early this year, I read some columns about love. I noticed that when you fall in love, you can only see the best and good of your lover. However, when the love is "fading away", you would start notice the weakness and bad of your partner. As to maintain the relationship for a longer time, you have to understand that romantic love would not stay forever. It is better to start developing a family like relationship with a base from the romantic love.
Romantic love can only last for two to three years and it would change into a relationship like family feeling. A family like relationship can last longer than romantic love. If you do not notice the change, it would upset your feeling and mislead you that the "love" is dead. Then the relationship could hardly continue.
A friend asked me why I loved you so much. I cannot give her any reason. However, this is the feeling I had for you. Love is so interesting. It is a feeling that you cannot explain and might have no reason. Maybe it was your sweet, your care, your romantic attitude, your talent, made me fell for you. I wished our relationship would have became the long lasting one and I was ready and prepared for that change. Were you ready? Or you thought that love was no more existed between us?
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